Influencing your MP on the Border Security Bill - a step-by-step guide

Campaigning takes many forms—from signing petitions and protesting to creative stunts and artivism. But one of the most powerful ways to drive real change is by engaging directly with decision-makers.

Whether you have five minutes or five hours to give, this guide provides practical tips and tools to connect with your MP and make a difference for refugee families.

Use the quick links to jump to any section, or scroll through for the full toolkit:

✊Getting started

As the Government’s latest immigration bill goes through Parliament, we have a significant opportunity to influence MPs and secure much-needed protections for refugees.

Whether or not you voted for your MP, they are elected to represent you, and they work for you. We need MPs to be bold and speak out for refugee rights and safe routes, including by raising our concerns and solutions in Parliamentary debates or behind closed doors, asking them to support (or oppose!) a Bill or amendments, speaking with other MPs, or pressing Ministers for positive changes.

There are a few ways you can get your MP’s attention, depending on how much time and resources you’ve got. Remember: MPs hold a lot of power, but so do you.

Click on the sections below to find out more

We’ll walk you through all of these options in the next sections, so make sure you keep on reading!

🧡Understanding safe routes and family reunion

Immigration policy can be incredibly complex—but you don’t need to be a legal expert to engage with your MP. Still, it can help to have a basic understanding of how safe routes and family reunion work, and why they urgently need fixing.

What’s the problem?

“Safe routes” are immigration arrangements that allow access to the UK for humanitarian reasons. These routes are opened by the UK government so that people can travel officially and safely for the purposes of claiming asylum and getting protection as a refugee. This could be via a visa or permission to come travel to the UK without a visa.  

But right now, these routes are extremely limited—and for most refugees, simply don’t exist. That leaves people with no choice but to risk their lives on dangerous journeys.

Here's what you should know:

1

You must be in the UK to claim asylum 

There’s currently no visa for seeking asylum. That means refugees can’t apply for protection until they’re physically here—but most can’t get here safely or legally.

 

2

Most people don’t have a safe way to reach the uk

Most safe routes to the UK, like the Ukraine or Afghan schemes, are limited to specific nationalities. Others fleeing places like Gaza or Sudan have virtually no way to reach safety here, leaving smugglers as the only option.

3

Safe routes save lives

When refugees are given safe alternatives, they will use them over deadly journeys. But right now, there’s almost none. 2024 was the deadliest year on record for Channel crossings, with at least 69 lives lost, including children.

While there have been some significant wins for refugees since the Government came to power, like the end of the cruel Rwanda scheme, they have continued the same security-over-humanity approach.

Recently, we saw the Government ban most refugees from ever getting citizenship and live broadcast deportations on national TV. These tactics are not only ineffective—they dehumanise refugees and fuel division.

The Government’s new Border Security, Asylum and Immigration Bill perpetuates the hostile environment and fails to open life-saving safe routes. Worst, it risks punishing refugees for having no safe way to come here.

💡Find out more about what’s in the Bill below, or read our explainer.

💡Read our safe routes explainer to find out more.

What’s the Government doing?

✅ The good

❌ The bad

Iyad standing in front of an airport with his uncle after they just reunited

Why safe routes matter: Iyad’s story

At just 13, Iyad*’s world was turned upside down when an Israeli airstrike claimed the lives of his parents, siblings, and grandparents. Left severely injured and in urgent need of medical care, his only hope was to join his uncle in the UK.

Iyad was fortunate to be evacuated to Egypt for treatment, where he began the difficult legal process of reuniting with his uncle. After months of challenges and multiple surgeries, Iyad finally arrived in the UK to start rebuilding his life.

But stories like Iyad’s are rare, and most Palestinian refugees face immense barriers to reunite with loved ones in the UK, many simply unable to escape.

*Alias used to protect his identity

what needs to change

Refugees shouldn’t have to risk their lives just to reach safety or reunite with family. We’re calling on the Government to:

  1. Expand family reunion rules so child refugees can reunite with siblings, aunts, uncles, or grandparents—not just parents. This is a lifeline for many children who have no other family left.

  2. Create a refugee visa to give people a safe way to travel to the UK and apply for asylum. Polls show over half of the UK public would support this.

  3. Work with other European countries to build a fairer, more coordinated migration approach and prevent more deadly journeys.

 
For more information, visit our Routes To Safety campaign page.

🏛️What your MP can do about it

Whether your MP is sympathetic or undecided, there are meaningful steps they can take right now to stand up for refugees. That includes:

🔔 Did you know? The Border Security Bill will soon move to the House of Lords, where Peers can suggest changes—but it will return to the House of Commons for final votes. That means we have a key window right now to keep the pressure on MPs and make sure they know their constituents expect them to stand up for refugee rights.

Here are some simple, powerful asks you can make when contacting your MP. Feel free to include these in your letter or raise them in your meeting:

➡ Will you vote for amendments on safe routes?

➡ Will you raise my concerns with the Immigration Minister or Home Secretary?

➡ Will you speak in Parliament about why safe routes matter?

➡ Will you attend a meeting with other local constituents/our community group to hear our concerns?

🤝How to engage your MP, step-by-step

In this section, we give you an overview of the different ways you can engage your MPs - click on the sections below to learn more, or just keep scrolling:

👉 Writing to your MP (even if you already did)

👉 Meeting with your MP

👉 Other ways to engage your MP

💡 Pro tip: Before writing to your MP or asking them to meet, do some research! Use the ‘They Work For You’ website to see their voting record and have a look at their social media pages to find out more about them. This helps provide a picture of who they are, what they’re passionate about, what they’ve advocated for in the past.

Watch our short video for a quick tutorial on researching your MP >>


Writing to your MP (even if you already did)

Even if you’ve already used our quick & easy digital tool to contact your MP, a follow-up message – especially a handwritten letter – can make a big impact.

Why write to your MP?

MPs receive hundreds of standard emails through digital campaigning tools, and while these help show the scale of public concern, a unique, thoughtful letter stands out. It shows you're deeply invested and makes it harder for them to ignore or give a generic reply.

💡 Pro tip: Consider writing a joint letter with multiple signatories, especially if you're part of a local group, community organisation or faith community.

How to structure your letter

The most important thing is that you make the letter your own – your MP needs to understand why this issue matters to you! But we’ve included a suggested structure and some paragraph starters to help you get started. You can also refer to other sections on this page for information about the Bill and safe routes that you might want to share with your MP.

Additional tips for impact

  • Keep it to one page, if possible, but meaningful content matters more than worrying about how long it is

  • Be polite and constructive, even if your MP has a different view

  • Avoid jargon – speak from the heart

  • Mention if you’re writing as part of a local campaign, or alongside others in the area

  • Make your letter extra memorable by hand-delivering it to your MP’s constituency office or surgery!


Meeting with your MP

Meeting your MP in person can be one of the most powerful ways to influence their views and actions. A face-to-face conversation allows you to share your concerns directly, build a relationship, and ask for meaningful commitments.

Requesting a meeting

There are two ways to meet your MP:

  • Book a private meeting through their office

  • Attend a constituency surgery – these are regular slots (usually Fridays or weekends) where MPs meet with constituents to hear their concerns.

Expand the sections below for a step-by-step guide on how to request and prepare for your meeting ↓

Prepping for the meeting

A little prep goes a long way. Here are some tips on how to get ready for your meeting with your MP:

  • Do your research. Find out what issues they care about and their voting record. Check out their website, the Parliament website, or They Work For You. Scroll back up for a quick video tutorial on how to use They Work For You!

  • Understand their influence. Do they have connections in government? Are they part of a committee or hold a party role? They could use these connections to influence.

  • Know their background. It’s useful to know any past jobs, interests or relevant experience they have. For example, if someone has worked in conflict zones or international development, then you could use that as a hook.

  • Prepare an agenda and set clear goals. What are your top 2-3 messages and asks?

  • Practice. Rehearse what you’ll say and be prepared for counter-arguments.

  • Bring materials, like briefings, reports, or a letter co-signed by your group. Check out our ‘Additional resources’ section.

  • Who will you bring? If meeting as a group, make sure you prepare together. Agree a game plan, or have a script so that everyone has a role.

You’re in the meeting. What now?

  • Be friendly and constructive. You are trying to build a relationship with your MP. Find out what their values are and use that to come together on issues.  Appreciate them for the things they have done and challenge them on what they haven’t.

  • Give your MP the chance to respond and listen actively to them. This is a great opportunity to learn what might be holding them back from supporting amendments, or safe routes generally – make sure to write it down so you can respond on the spot or after the meeting.

  • Come prepared with evidence, statistics and stories (your own, or others’). Providing evidence and real-life accounts will help to persuade your MP that these issues are important and urgent.

  • Make clear requests and be concise. Be clear on what you want them to do next.  Can they commit to making changes? E.g. by voting, raising the issue in Parliament, sharing about the issue on social media, visiting somewhere in your community.

  • Ask for their insider knowledge. We can ask MPs to help us work out who really holds the power with decision-making. Sometimes a Minister is not the actual person behind a decision, so you could ask questions about who else needs to be influenced and who we need to build a relationship.

  • Be mindful of time. Meetings are often short, so stay on track. Where possible, try building relationships with staff present too – they can be key allies!


Other ways to engage your MP

Grabbing your MP’s attention on social media

MPs and their teams usually spend a lot of time on social media, so it’s a great tool to share your thoughts with them.

Here are some tips on how to post effectively:

  • Tag your MP: Most MPs are on Twitter/X, BlueSky or Instagram – tagging them ensures they (and their team) see your message.

  • Keep it short and clear: Focus on one ask or message at a time.

  • Include a visual: Photos, graphics, or videos perform better and feel more human. If you’re sharing pictures/videos with others (like your MP), make sure you get their written consent!

  • Make the most of hashtags: Use our hashtag #RoutesToSafety or #FamiliesBelongTogether to link your messages with others campaigning on this issue. 

  • Be respectful: Even when holding someone to account, a polite tone is more likely to start a conversation.

  • Tag us on social media so we can reshare your post and help it reach a wider audience! We’re on LinkedIn, Facebook, Blue Sky and Instagram @safepassageintl and X @safepassageint.

💡 Expand these sections for ready-made messages to share with your MP on social media

💥 Bonus tips to make your post unmissable:

  • Use Instagram stories to document your campaign action and tag your MP

  • Ask a local influencer or community leader to make a post or amplify your message

  • Create a social media “storm” by getting multiple people to post/tag your MP at once

  • Share screenshots of your letter or MP response

Creative campaigning

Campaigning can feel intense and overwhelming, and traditional methods like protests aren’t always accessible to everyone. In today’s world, creative tactics are also key to cutting through the noise and making your message stand out.

Why not try something different? We’ve shared some ideas for creative campaigning, but if you’ve got your own, feel free to reach out—we’re here to help!

You can curate a piece of "artivism", i.e. using art as a form of activism. Art is a universal language that can be used to convey a strong political or social message, whether using painting, installations, or the power of words, like the Routes To Home poem our wonderful Young Leaders wrote. If you’re a bit more adventurous, why not project a powerful video somewhere meaningful, like Led By Donkeys did onto the white cliffs of Dover with powerful messages from refugees?

Or you might tap into "craftivism" and produce something beautiful like our Fabric of Solidarity, which our grassroots campaigners stitched together using fabric from different cultures, telling the story of people's heritage and migration and create a striking powerful image for our campaigns.

Not crafty? Everyone has creativity hidden deep inside them, so if arts or crafts isn't your thing, there could be other ways to grab people’s attention - just think outside the box! For example, we recently took to the streets of London with our giant billboard mocking a departure board to highlight the delays and barriers many refugees face trying to reach safety and family.

📢What your MP might say — and how to respond

If you're about to meet your MP, or have already written to them and received a reply, this section will help you prepare for common objections and how to respond effectively.

Take what feels useful, rework it in your own words, and remember: the more personal your argument, the more powerful it will be. MPs are much more likely to listen when they see that real people in their constituency care deeply about child refugees and the need for safe routes.

Click below to see examples of common MP arguments and suggested responses ↓

You’ve got your MP’s attention—amazing! Whether you’ve met them or received a response to your letter, it’s crucial to keep up the pressure and make sure they follow through. Here’s how:

  • Send a thank-you email. Recap what you discussed, highlight any commitments they made, and include any extra information you promised to send.

  • Share resources. If your MP is interested in learning more, feel free to include links to our briefings, reports, or factsheets. Need help finding the right one? Drop us a message at campaigns@safepassage.org.uk.

  • Check back in. If your MP agreed to take action (e.g vote for an amendment, write to a minister, share a statement), follow up a couple of weeks later to check in on progress. Don’t forget to thank your MP if they’ve followed through on their commitments!

  • Loop in others – If you’re part of a group, share updates with them. It might be helpful to plan a second action or letter if your MP hasn’t followed through.

  • Let us know how it went! Email us at campaigns@safepassage.org.uk to share how the meeting went and what your MP said. It helps us map out allies in Parliament and refine our campaign strategy.

  • Be persistent. Change often takes time, and even with your best efforts, you might not get the result you want right away. Stay polite but firm—following up shows you’re serious, keeps refugee rights on your MP’s radar, and helps turn promises into action.

🔥Keeping the pressure on

Make some noise!

Sharing your action publicly helps amplify your message and encourages others to take action too.

  • Ask for a photo with your MP. If they’ve made a positive commitment (e.g to support an amendment), use the opportunity to thank them publicly and encourage them to follow through.

  • Bring a sign. Something simple like “Refugees welcome”, “Families Belong Together” or “Safe routes save lives” works well. You can ask your MP to pose with it or hold it yourself in the photo. If they agree, you could even send the image to your local paper.

  • Sending a letter? Consider handing it over in person (e.g at a surgery), and take a photo of you handing it to them. You could also share a copy of the letter on social media, or film yourself reading it out loud and post the video.

  • Get consent. Always ask your MP (and anyone else in the photo) for permission before sharing pictures publicly.

  • Tag us and tag your MP so we can reshare your post and help it reach a wider audience!

📚 Additional resources

You’ve now got everything you need to influence your MP on the Border Security Bill and make sure they know you care about safe routes and refugee rights.

If you’d like to go even further, we’ve included some helpful resources for you to read or print and share with your MP: